“Why Chasing a Man Will Not Get You Cherished As a Woman”

Control, control, control—that is why we chase a man. We don't know how to attract the love we want and so we have to find ways to force it, control it, make it happen, and force a man to like us, commit to us and be with us.

We stalk him on social media.

Text him just to say hi.

We put on an image, we try to be sweet, nice and do things for him.

We aggressively try to be nice if you know what I mean—trying hard to impress him, convince him and win him over.

All of those are the exact opposite of feminine energy whose foundation is emotional freedom. You aren't free—therefore he pushes away from the prison you are in of control.

And we control because we are disconnected from our Feminine power and because inside we allow fear and desperation to be the only means we USE to get love. It's unattractive—and no woman in her masculine energy is going to attract the sort of masculine man she wants.

That's when men pull away, ghost us, make convenient excuses like saying "he really wants to see you but he just had a family emergency or he has been super busy lately." Or maybe he does see you for coffee, or invites you to hang, or may even till take you to dinner one last time… but its clear he's no longer excited or making an effort and you somehow feel you've been put in the booty call or friend zone.

Masculine men are not attracted to Masculine energy in women. Men don't like to be controlled, chased, pursued...

How attracted would you be to a guy who takes 2 and a half hours to do his hair, nails and makeup before seeing you, who expects you to send him flowers and chocolates, and wants you to make all the plans and be the man?

No problem there with anyone doing it, I am saying that if you are the Feminine energy—you will be attracted to masculine energy (and this goes beyond gender).

Feminine energy, the real feminine energy, not the outer fake feminine energy a lot of people are teaching nowadays, triggers intense attraction in men.

You are always loved,

- Gio

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How to Identify a Masculine Man Who is Commitment Ready

Masculine men give you as a woman deep feelings of stability and security. You feel like you can be a woman around them because of their grounding, safe, powerful and focused energy. They are not flakey, indecisive, and directionless and if you feel unstable around them, are not in their masculine. (As a woman you will feel their masculine grounding in your lower body/chakras especially).

Beta Men are looking for a masculine energied woman who looks feminine typically. They want a woman to provide the grounding, direction and stability they don't have. They want the woman to provide for them like a mother does. Often men like these will have little direction, will be financially unstable, will have great ideas but not be able to succeed at any of them (idealist) and will often argue about paying for dates.

Masculine men like significance but they don't need validation to lead. Beta men will be looking for validation and popularity everywhere without doing the work to become the solid man they need to be. They are chasing fame not leadership. A masculine man will be focused on leadership and service.

Men will stay even when times are hard, if they are committed to you, they will seek for ways to work it through, they understand that life is both highs and lows.

Masculine men are looking for a High Value Queen and a real relationship, not just a pretty face that makes them look good on social media.

Masculine men do not run from commitment, they understand they are forged through commitment, commitment to building a life, a partnership, a business, etc.

Men always figure out the way to succeed through strategies, focus and resourcefulness. They get back up, they don't make excuses.

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The Power Of Your Feminine Energy Signals Deeply To Men

My Client shares this with me and I start laughing because it never fails.

Men always respond to your energy, they have a radar for this. My client and I have done incredible work in 5 sessions and her radiance, FEMININE ENERGY  and open heart is showing up big time.

"Gio! You won't believe it. I keep telling myself the attention I am getting from guys is a fluke or just coincidence but this isn't. My friend has a hot, super quality guy friend whom I've known for 2 years. Even though we were introduced way back when, whenever we would run into him or see him (and I would be with my friend) he would barely acknowledge me and I mean barely. He would focus on my friend and they would catch up.”

Well we ran into him again at a restaurant/bar and I just sat quietly expecting things to go as usual and be kind of ignored. He said hi to my friend but then turned around, noticed me and laser—focused in on me!!! He kept asking me questions and smiling and then asked me even more questions. I couldn't believe it!

He asked me about what I do and just kept going on and on. Then he said I looked beautiful and then asked me for my card. I told him I didn't have any cards on me so he asked if I could add him on Facebook. He then left to talk to other people, but not 15 minutes later came back to ask me why I hadn't added him on Facebook! LOL!

Then he asked me if I'd like to hang out sometime and asked for my number!!! Gio I've run into this guy several times over 2 years, he has barely noticed me and 5 weeks into working with you, the guy asks me out on a date! Yeah right! That is no fluke!!!"

The best part of this is that Bethany had never in her life been as concerned about her weight as she felt she was weighing the heaviest she ever had and yet—there you go—the guy he had the hots for asked her out. The guy she had silently admired and thought, "out of my league!"

Men feel into your energy way before they notice how you look, are dressed and act. Your energy radiates when our heart feels safe, loved, whole and supported—come join us and over 20,000 amazing women at our Free Facebook Support Group The High Value Woman!

You are always loved,


- Gio

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